Wednesday, October 3, 2007

devotion and sacrifice.......

dont live for others all the time.......

have u ever felt frustrated about what hav u become??? hav u ever felt in ur futile attempts to please ur loved ones u hav somewher forgotten urself??? from pleasing mom n dad n siblings n friends n girlfiend or boyfrend u try to b somebody tat they want to see in u n ultimately u struggle to find the original u, the u tat u like, the u tat u xpect from urself to b, the u tat wud attract u forever to b wid urself...

i know the question tat mite arise is "will it not b selfish" the answer is no... never... its never selfish to demand space, to demand aims, to demand liking, to demand living.changing ur goals,compromising with ur talents n interests just becoz ur loved one wants u to b somebody else is just like asking a flower not to give out fragrance.. when the creator has implanted tat interest n talent in u who has d rite to ask u not to bring it out!n in asking u to do so who is selfish... u or d one expecting such sacrifice???

the thing one shud take care of while fulfilling his or her wishes is d righteousness of their wish... n trust me rights n wrongs r not subjective!they r clearly distinguished!there is only one right way n as many wrong ways ther r, they wil always b wrong!n remember somewher while trying to live for others n proving ur selflessness u r ultimately trying to prove to urself!

evolve the way u want to see urself... n u will never b bad... n when u will not b bad u wil b gud n when u wil b gud u wil b loved by all!!! please urself n live! one day u will dream big n achieve it n then all ur loved ones will b proud of u!!!

4 comments:

prafull said...

cant really comment on that coz I too have faced this dilemma on innumerable occasions but everytime I promise to myself that ya this is the last time I am doing something for others and from next time I will do things for my own but this cycle continues forever and LAST TIME never comes.

Anonymous said...

I liked your views.
Its often that our "Distinction" gets obscured by the presence of people around.In the same tone Bhagwad Gita says "work and never expect".So here the choice is up to us about the kind of "Responsibility" we undertake.Meaning whether we "Follow" or "Lead".However whatever path we undertake should lead to much awaited success and fulfillment of our dreams.

मयंक said...

.............speechless !!!

Arpita Sarkar said...

very true.. wonderful thought
keep it up